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Memphis lost a Pharoah: Jarmelle "JoJo" Jones

12/21/2014

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“Even today we raise our hand against our brother…We have perfected our weapons, our conscience has fallen asleep, and we have sharpened our ideas to justify ourselves as if it were normal we continue to sow destruction, pain, death. Violence and war lead only to more death.” –Pope Francis

Pope Francis once wrote, “Even today we raise our hand against our brother…We have perfected our weapons, our conscience has fallen asleep, and we have sharpened our ideas to justify ourselves as if it were normal we continue to sow destruction, pain, death. Violence and war lead only to more death.” These words echoed in my ears so loudly that I had to write. I intentionally withheld this article because I wanted people to realize that after the cameras are long gone that we are still left missing our brother! A few weeks ago we were reminded of the beauty of a peaceful soul: Jarmelle “JoJo” Jones. Over 4,000 people gathered on a Sunday in a bond built out of love to take time to recognize his legacy. I met so many people and watched so many with tears in their eyes that day. The stories all ranged but the theme of how JoJo gave selflessly was remarkably all the same. Here was a man that brought an entire city together in the span of 26 years.  JoJo did more for this city than some people three times his age. Rev. Stacy Spencer of New Direction Church, delivered a powerful eulogy in which he spoke of a pop culture saying: YOLO (You Only Live Once) pointing out that JoJo lived his life with a good heart and with a continued positivity that few on this earth ever truly attain. During the message of a call to action to bring us together to move this age forward toward a light that would break through all of the violent darkness of the city, I found myself asking what will they write of my brother?

 

The goal of an African-American/Black writer is to eventually lose the adjectives that come before writer. The goal of most of us is that we offer an availability or access point to control our narratives. There is a certain community of writers that are always agonizing over which issues to cover or how to address them best. Truth is I thought of making this highly technical full of research and statistics regarding the life spans of African-American young men between 25-35. I wanted to address the severity of need to make the call to action actually action and not just a pretty moment of elegant speech and rhetoric. Over the past few days I have seen so much ignorance displayed in the news comment section with a blatant disregard of the emotion of friends and family. I witnessed post with racial undertones and suggestions of how or why. We can never justify or quantify the loss of life. What we can do is to take the time to control the narrative. The truth is JoJo was my fraternity brother. He was my little brother and was initiated into our KAPPA ETA chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. I love all my brothers the same but JoJo was a brother’s “bruh” (bruh=brother). You could call on JoJo in the middle of the night for anything from I need copies from Kinko’s to can you come speak to my class of children. All you would hear would be his common reply, “Say No More.” He would always be right there.

 

The most difficult part is trying to understand how broad his reach into our community was. He was touching and promoting so much happiness and love into Memphis. We owe him a tremendous debt that can only be given compensation for through consistent work and an “add no E(xcuses)” mentality. Many stories will be concocted and rumors will spread. It is human nature to hate what we do not understand. How could a 26 year old be taken so violently? People outside of his reach see a young male who had amassed a decent living and was breaking barriers. Common societal images that a hustler means a thug, multiple hustles means illegal, and that dreads mean low class are blatant attempts to dim a star. Jojo was not a hustler but an entrepreneur who was consistently one step ahead of the market. He noticed that young ladies in Memphis were paying exorbitant prices for luxury high-end hair so he created a network to supply young ladies with luxury hair at an affordable price. He was at the head of the class when it came to promoting and marketing parties. Jarmelle consistently spoke a message of supporting Memphis economy and how that in turn would benefit our local businesses and each other. 

Jarmelle spoke of getting “paper” but not money. His paper was a degree from the University of Memphis, which he attained. He did not wear dreads but locs. There was nothing to dread about JoJo and there was no dread in him.  Jarmelle was full of life, love, and purpose. Even in death JoJo pulled Memphians together to show that enough is enough. Black, white, Asian, poor, rich, hip, nerds, brothers, sisters, old and young all gathered to create the story of a positive and influential Memphian. I know many will question how many articles or new stories need to be written? The answer as many as it takes until justice appears. This narrative of love needs a home in the hearts of those that tried to take the sun from his smile. This narrative of love is to prove that you did not take the sun. You only gave the sun a new sky to shine in by the SON. I see the sun each day I wake now. JoJo shines in the corner of each smile of peace, love, and hope that I witnessed on that funeral day. Over 4,000 people will go forward to tell 4,000 more people who will tell 40,000 more that JoJo was a man. He was and is a beautiful man of purpose. Now his purpose to serve as a catalyst of change and action has been sparked with an act of violence that was meant to stop a movement and only ignited a much bigger one to start in his memory. This light will manifest all through Memphis and the world now and there is no stopping that. 

My only regret is that I did not tell him that I loved him enough. I mean how can you ever tell someone that did so much that you truly loved them enough? The beauty now is that I can tell my brother each day. He will see me in the classroom telling the narrative of my little brother whom I loved for his actions in the community. I will tell hundreds of children each year about the truth of my brother JoJo and tell them to chase their dreams as he did. Dream chasing is what JoJo was best at. He was best at making you believe that no matter whom or where you came from that you could achieve your dreams. Memphis, one of our sons, needs us most now. Please answer the call. Be courageous. Speak up and out. Work diligently. Love each other and more importantly take time to love a stranger. This city is full of strangers that need an encouraging word. Today we start a new journey and we will do it together. I send all my love to his family, my fraternity brothers, all those affected and effected, his little brother and a plethora of friends and associates. If we love and we show daily how much JoJo meant to us then Justice and Light have to shine. Darkness cannot last forever not with a smile so bright now cast into the sun rays as the fall upon us and warm our cheeks so that we may begin to smile again. JoJo we seek justice, not revenge, but justice and until then we will always and forever hold you in our hearts to remember a legacy of love and community building. 

If you have any information regarding the death of Jarmelle "JoJo" Jones, we ask that you report it immediately to the authorities. We love you and wish all that read this that you will share this message of love for our brother. Also, feel free to share in the comments your reflections. JoJo had so many that were closer than me and I want people who read this to know that JoJo was more than just a story but a real life brother.

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13 Comments
D.BERRY
12/21/2014 10:06:30 pm

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D.Berry
12/21/2014 10:09:09 pm

YES YES YES!!!

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La Marlo Anderson
12/22/2014 01:55:20 am

Such a befitting tribute...
I know that JoJo is resting in Love and I pray that the evildoers that took his precious life will be caught AS ALso that he may Rest in Love......
But, May I urge you to alleviate the term LOST/ LOSS.
I say this because the life of this purposed young man was a loving, caring and giving spirit. You can't possess those type of attributes and not know the Lord. Our God tells us that those who die in Christ yet shall they live.....therefore because of the non presence on earth doesn't mean he's lost/loss. It means that being absent from the earth means being present with the Lord. Its not final ....Death is not final.....Live your Ive loving as JoJo did and we shall see him again. Until then hold his infectious smile and memories and prayers to the Family dear. Until we all Meet again.
Stay Strong Family
Much Love
La Marlo Patrice/2014

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Gina Huery
12/22/2014 02:35:25 am

➡It will be the little things
that you will remember,
the quiet moments,
the smiles, the laughter.
And although it may seem
hard right now,
it will be the memories
of these little things
that help to push
away the pain
and bring the smiles
back again⬅
Rest on Baby Boy...Rest on!!!

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Savant
12/22/2014 02:43:40 am

Rest in power JoJo

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Shakeyvia
12/22/2014 04:09:27 am

RIP JoJo justice will be served! Praying.

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B. Ray
12/22/2014 07:06:03 am

Beautifully written!! Such beautiful insight; imagine if we all had a mindset for the value of life. #JusticeforJoJo

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V
12/22/2014 07:26:19 am

I can't recall a time that I was so affected by the death of someone I didn't know. I truly pray that your words move many more to action and that they reach the eyes and move the hearts of those who can help bring those responsible to justice.

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Sharion
12/22/2014 11:15:22 am

The fact that no one has come forward with information breaks my heart! JoJo, thank you for everything you have done in life and even through your death! We will forever mourn the loss of such a beautiful person! Your spirit, I pray, lives through me and the countless others who love you. I pray everyday for justice!!! Justice for you, Stephanie, your Mother, family, and countless friends!!! I intend to continue to seek out justice!!! LOVE YOU, JOJO!!! #LoveDrownsOutHate #LongLiveJo #JusticeForJoJo

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Quita
12/22/2014 11:49:39 am

I didn't know Jojo but just reading all the wonderful things people have said about this young man makes me feel like he was a part of my life....My heart hurts for his loved ones but I know that he is still with them in spirit....R.I.P Jojo

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Lee Hayes
12/22/2014 02:33:54 pm

JJojo is my husband's frat brother, which automatically made him my brother. I remember meeting him for the 1st time when the new UC opened. I must say he took me by surprise by dang Near scaring me half to death. Lol. Ill never forget how he jumped in front of me with a party flyer and that smile of all smiles yelling, "ay yo baby you coming to my party tonight!?" Good times. There are many terms to describe Jojo. Mine personally, is pleasantly contagious. No matter your mood or situation, being in his presence changed all that. He had a smile that literally made you question pain, hurt, disappointment, etc,. He wasn't about that. He bled positivity. Although it hurts me he is not physically among us, I smile knowing that he watches us daily. I will never say good bye. Ill just say catch u on the flipside. My 2015 is dedicated you you. This will be my year. No matter the pain, the toughness, or how bad I may want to quit. I will tell myself "No Excuses" I love you iKHon. The one in front of the gun lives forever. #flyhighjojo #flyhigh #SwagMe!

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Tasha
12/22/2014 10:27:56 pm

Beautiful article!! RIP Jermelle. We will continue Justice for JoJo. 💚

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Erica
3/15/2015 02:10:13 am

Awesome read. I didn't know Jojo but I'm continuously praying for his family and friends. Take comfort in knowing that if justice in the worldly sense in never gained, God will definitely get due justice as he sees fit; everyone has a day where they stand before God and are truly held accountable.

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